Author Tasha Pate was given a dream by God that inspired her book Shut Up!!! Your Desserts are Not about the Tea!



This dream revealed how gossip is having such a negative impact on our world. She believes this dream was a sign. A sign that we need to change the way we speak to and about one another. It seems as though the love we once possessed for each other is lost. And, the compassion we once carried has been replaced with criticism, as we continue to condemn each other. Although it has become a cultural phenomenon, “Spilling Tea” is driven by pointless, toxic conversations that keep us divided.


Tasha believes her book will shift the way people view gossip by highlighting the damage it has caused and will cause. And, by teaching new positive communication methods, bridges will be built as readers learn to speak life in love. A new environment will be created that allows for positive change and reconciliation.

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Shut Up!!!

Your Desserts are not about the Tea!

Gossiping is wrong. It doesn’t matter what we choose to call it. It doesn’t matter where we do it or the reason why we do it. Gossiping is ALWAYS destructive. These facts have been forgotten and forgiven because of one word: TEA. SHUT UP!!! Your Desserts are not about the Tea! exposes what Spilling the Tea does personally, relationally and mentally. Go on this journey and learn the skills to remove, rebuild and regain control of the way you communicate. Be determined to open your mind and heart so you can Stop spilling tea and instead, learn to speak life.

Journal

Shut Up!!!

Your Desserts are not about the Tea!

This journal provides instructions and space to write, (while you read the book) allowing you to see your growth, as you remove toxic communication (from your life) and learn to speak in love. The beautiful pictures, and design, will make your journey even more enjoyable! You will be able to see your transformation as you journal your journey to a gossip-free life. Join the Journey!

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