Author Tasha Lee -Pope Pate was given a dream by God that inspired her book Shut Up!!! Your Desserts are Not about the Tea!



This dream revealed how gossip is having such a negative impact on our world. She believes this dream was a sign. A sign that we need to change the way we speak to and about one another. It seems as though the love we once possessed for each other is lost. And, the compassion we once carried has been replaced with criticism, as we continue to condemn each other. Although it has become a cultural phenomenon, “Spilling Tea” is driven by pointless, toxic conversations that keep us divided.


Tasha believes her book will shift the way people view gossip by highlighting the damage it has caused and will cause. And, by teaching new positive communication methods, bridges will be built as readers learn to speak life in love. A new environment will be created that allows for positive change and reconciliation.

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Speak Life:

Learn to Speak Positive and Find Your Peace.

In Speak Life, author Tasha Pate offers readers a transformative 31-day journey designed to help them reshape the way they think, speak, and live.


Through daily devotionals filled with encouragement, scripture, and practical reflection, Tasha teaches that the words we speak have power—not only over our circumstances but over our hearts and minds.


At the core of this devotional book is the belief that the foundation for speaking life begins with nurturing oneself through proper self-care, self-love, and mental health awareness. Each day’s lesson guides readers toward building habits of positive thinking, affirmations, and mindfulness that inspire healing and hope. Both gentle and empowering, Speak Life serves as a reminder that transformation begins within. It encourages readers to silence negative self-talk, replace doubt with faith, and to love themselves with all their heart.


These are the key steps to Speaking Life and Finding their Peace.

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Shut Up!!!

Your Desserts are not about the Tea!

Gossiping is wrong. It doesn’t matter what we choose to call it. It doesn’t matter where we do it or the reason why we do it. Gossiping is ALWAYS destructive. These facts have been forgotten and forgiven because of one word: TEA. SHUT UP!!! Your Desserts are not about the Tea! exposes what Spilling the Tea does personally, relationally and mentally. Go on this journey and learn the skills to remove, rebuild and regain control of the way you communicate. Be determined to open your mind and heart so you can Stop spilling tea and instead, learn to speak life.

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Shut Up!!!

Your Desserts are not about the Tea!

This journal provides instructions and space to write, (while you read the book) allowing you to see your growth, as you remove toxic communication (from your life) and learn to speak in love. The beautiful pictures, and design, will make your journey even more enjoyable! You will be able to see your transformation as you journal your journey to a gossip-free life. Join the Journey!

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